Saturday, 28 April 2012

How to Treat a Woman Right in a Simple Way


There are so many misguided instructions on how to make the woman happy and as much as everybody cannot fit in the same category these are some of the general ways to make the woman in your life happy. Believe me I know since I am one.
Help out Around the House.
Please do this without being asked and this is what makes it count. There is nothing as sweet as when your significant other comes into the kitchen and see a pile of carrots waiting to be diced while you are washing the lettuce and he walks over and does it himself. This brings out all that loving toward him.
Gifts.
Contrary to what most people believe, the gift is not as important as the thought. It does not have to be expensive but should reflect that he thought of you. A two dollars chocolate bought by your man is more appreciated than the expensive necklace he sent his secretary to pick for you.
Compliments
I wonder why it’s such a big issue if your woman asks you if she looks fat in the dress. First she is the one who bought the dress so it means she must have liked the way she looked in it and since you love her just tell her she looks wonderful and that’s the end of it. If she has gained weight for one reason or another look for an activity that can promote weight loss and encourage the two of you to join and she will like it because that means that she gets to spend some time with her man.
Keep Time.
If you have scheduled an activity together ensure that you keep the time. Keeping someone waiting is an indicator that you don’t value their time as well as them so please don’t make this mistake unless it’s something that is 100% unavoidable. If its unavoidable please keep her informed as you resolve the issue.
Important Dates.
We are all humans and we get to forget a lot of stuff, be open and admit that you forgot and that will not be the end of the world.
Pull Your Weight.
Women are accused of nagging and why is this? Honestly when your woman asks you to do something that is urgent it mostly means that she has tried to do it and is not successful and that is why she requested it from you and maybe it can only take you a few minutes. When you do it however minor it is, it shows that you give her priority and that she is important to you and believe me there will be no nagging in that house.
Listen.
The reason we have girlfriends is that we like to talk things out but sometimes I need my man just to listen and not offer a solution. It doesn’t have to be for hours; just having a cup of tea with me as we talk about nothing in particular works for me.
Babies.
If you choose and are blessed with a child, nothing is closer to a woman’s heart than a man who steps up and is involved even in the dirty part of bring up the child. This one just gets your woman hands up.
All The Little Silly Things.
Its funny how much a woman likes to be loved, nothing can give a greater high than her man’s love and it can make a woman forget about all the other people in her life. Holding the door open as we enter a building, the car door, pulling the chair out before sitting and all these little things that don’t take much can make a woman’s day just right.
This is my opinion and this has actually worked for most of my friends. Remember us girlfriend we like to talk and I have heard most women crying out just to be loved in the simplest way, all these other things are but a decoration.
Just loving a woman, opens up all the other possibilities and when you love her then your part is done and what you give will come back to you in double portion

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